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Established in 2017, The RPG Pub was founded by Endless Flight to provide an online alternative for a number of folks who felt disenfranchised by the existing hobby forums. We started small, with a few dozen regulars, but in the years since The Pub has grown substantially, with over 2000 members as of this writing and more registering every day.
If this is your first time visiting The Pub, feel free to introduce yourself in the thread “How did you end up here?” in the Site & Community forum.
This thread is here to provide you with a general overview of The Pub's rules and acclimate new users to the board's culture.
FORUM RULES
The Pub has maintained only one hard and fast rule since it’s inception:
NO POLITICS!
The Pub has maintained only one hard and fast rule since it’s inception:
NO POLITICS!
This generally means that we don’t want to participate in the so-called “Culture War” that currently dominates discourse in many online hobby spaces and social media in general. The Pub was founded as a “Shrine to Escapism”, a place to focus on what unites us as Geeks, rather than the ideologies that divide us. The Pub is an oasis from the hostility, frustration, and tribalism engendered by online political discourse.
The “No Politics” rule is left intentionally broad and comprehensive to allow moderators to make common sense rulings on a case-by-case basis, taking context into consideration, and to discourage “linedancing” or attempts to “game the system” based on technicalities.
However, we recognize that for new members, especially those that come from other forums where perhaps the style of moderation is more punitive, the vagueness of the rule can be intimidating. Please understand that the last thing that we want is for our members to feel like they have to “walk on eggshells” or constantly watch what they say or face unexpected consequences. To partially alleviate such concerns, please refer to the section on “Moderation Style”, below. For more specific advice on what does and does not constitute political topics, refer to the F.A.Q.
BEYOND THE ONE RULE
“No Politics” is the only rule explicitly outlined because anything else that might get moderated is simply common sense for any intelligent adult – don’t post pr0n, don’t link to anything illegal, don’t be a complete asshat to other posters, etc.
EXCEPTIONS TO THE ONE RULE
Any form of bigotry, including racism, sexism, gender-identity based discrimination, etc. we do not consider legitimate political positions, so are not offered any consideration by our "No Politics" rule. Likewise, we don’t accept the legitimacy of any hate groups. The Pub also does not recognize the notion of “acceptable targets”, and will not tolerate any denigration of another poster or group of people based on prejudices or stereotypes.
Historical politics, especially in the context of games, are not subject to the No Politics rule, as long as they are not directly referencing modern day parallels (e.g., discussing Nazis in the context of a game taking place during WWII is okay, discussing Nazis in the context of recent political rallies in the U.S. is not).
Occasionally, we've recognized that there are "events" in the RPG community that push the boundaries of what otherwise would be acceptable discussion topics at The Pub, but they are important enough to the hobby that they are impossible (or it would be irresponsible) to ignore. We're established a specific designation (Mod+) for these threads, and they are subject to higher than normal levels of moderation (see “Thread Designations” in the section Moderation Style below for more details).
BEST PRACTICES
These are not rules per se, merely guidelines to keep in mind that prevent conversations from going in bad directions:
- Assume good faith. If we don't start from the assumption that people's responses are made in honesty and without a secret agenda, there's no point in discourse.
- Leave the stuff that happens off the Pub off the Pub. OK, so maybe you encountered someone who said something somewhere, or you've heard some group express some opinion and it gets your goat. We get it. But unless it's something people actually present can account for or respond to, it serves no purpose to bring up. By that same token, try not to speak in generalities or group people together. We're all individuals with our own opinions, and everyone can speak for themselves.
- Avoid Logical Fallacies. More often than anything else, these lead to miscommunications, frustrations, and flared tempers. If you need a refresher on these look here: https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/
- Don't use specialized terminology without providing your definition. The Hobby is full of hotly debated terms with various definitions; we're talking about stuff far too nerdy and too specialized to have a common dictionary definition to fall back on, such as “Simulationism”, “Storygames”, “Railroading”, etc. Many posters develop their own definitions for these terms, then use them while assuming everyone knows their intention. What’s important is not the terms themselves, it's understanding what a person means when they use them. By that same token, part of acting in good faith is, once you know how a poster is using a term, respond to their points or arguments on those terms, not your own. In that respect, don't attack or argue with people over their definitions, which will get us nowhere and just take the conversation in circles.
- Don’t seek validation. In other words, don't expect other posters to bend over backwards to reassure you that your PoV or your opinions are "okay". You should already know this and not need anyone to tell you this. A person expressing their opinions and preferences should not be de facto interpreted as an attack on your own.
- Don’t take any of this too seriously. If you find yourself getting angry, or otherwise emotionally upset, step back, take a breather, and remember none of this matters - at all. It may be you cannot change anyone's mind. The point here is for everyone to have the opportunity to communicate their POV and to foster understanding; agreement isn't a necessary part of that. If you feel like you're arguing against a brick wall, just walk away. As long as you've clearly laid out your position, that's all that matters. there's no winners or losers. None of this affects your life or how you game.