And Lucasfilm has the balls to lie about the reason why people are not happy with the butchery.
They pulled the woman card for TLJ too, as if the movie wasn't trying it's hardest to make Poe the sympathetic character and Holdo the adversary. If The movie didn't want that to happen they would have allowed us to understand what Holdos perspective was, and that way we could understand why she refused to acknowledge Poe and this would require Holdo to confide in just one single person on board the ship, or to have Finn and/or Rose say something to make the viewer think they know why Holdo is holding back. People generally don't look for deeper meanings when they think they know the answer already.