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Gringnr bro
What are you trying to achieve? No one is going to change their mind about Zweispammer because of your defense. First because some of your arguments stretch credulity and require to ignore pattern & context to exonerate him from what he says. Eg. I read some of his post here and weasely half-voiced racism accusations were definetly in his repertoir - saying it's racist to call him a shill and similar nonsense (check p. of the Demon city thread for evidence). Doesn't matter though.
If there's one thing I've learned about the online RPG community as a whole is that harassment is way too common. The other thing is that you have to really really try hard to get banned from the PUB. As far as I am concerned this is the closest equivalent to a jury of our peers on an internet forum, so if they tell us they don't want to plaster the victim's name & whatnot I believe them. Not wanting to risk the resuming and compounding of the harassment is a valid reason not to get into the detail. Not saying you should believe them too. But to convince me and I suspect most people here you'd have to reasonably demonstrate all the mods are biaised, not just Baulderstone (who I think is a pretty good faith debater in general btw).
Btw, no it's not symetrical, and I don't think it should be. Let's be real, the mods here are much less likely than random posters to make fake accusations, and it's also not just 1 person, but a group that we know disagree on lots of things, are generally fair & rarely take action to sanction anyone. They're also in charge of not letting this place turn into a shitshow, which necessitates some discretion. It just does.
Also while I appreciate that you apologize when pressed, you have a pattern of making screechy "call outs" (accusations) mid argument then having to backtrack. But last time I understood your point, and this time I don't see one besides apologetics. So it feels like it is parasocial/social clique bullshit and that I don't like. Didn't help that impression that you wrote a giant chunk of text of fanfiction about Spamhander apologizing- or that you admitted being friends and therefor biaised.
Anyway, general rethoric advice : if you mount a defense of someone don't stop midargument to adress immaterial things (like some people supposedly distorting what you say), unless that's the whole point of the defense - eg "all the mods are biaised against Spamhammer", since that's what would be required for such an attack to make sense.
And more personal advice/pure opinion, just let Grim and Perilous Spam (or any internet personality) mount their own apology/defense, unless you get paid for it. It doesn't even help them. But it does smear shit everywhere on forums and for no good reason. Very frankly last time I saw you in the moderation thread I felt you were attacked because you said something that caused fanboy butthurt despite having validity - even though you were also screechy. This time, it feels like you're just playing the flying monkey apologetic.
Speaking for myself, I'm not here to avoid "politics", I'm here to avoid being somewhere that's captured by fanboy cliques and other personality cults - which, granted, is most of what passes for politics in this scene. It still seeps in and I don't like it. So that's why I wrote you this text wall. Also because I think you're a good dude and you will listen at least a bit. And you know I didn't write it just because of biais against you or to stan for whomever.
What are you trying to achieve? No one is going to change their mind about Zweispammer because of your defense. First because some of your arguments stretch credulity and require to ignore pattern & context to exonerate him from what he says. Eg. I read some of his post here and weasely half-voiced racism accusations were definetly in his repertoir - saying it's racist to call him a shill and similar nonsense (check p. of the Demon city thread for evidence). Doesn't matter though.
If there's one thing I've learned about the online RPG community as a whole is that harassment is way too common. The other thing is that you have to really really try hard to get banned from the PUB. As far as I am concerned this is the closest equivalent to a jury of our peers on an internet forum, so if they tell us they don't want to plaster the victim's name & whatnot I believe them. Not wanting to risk the resuming and compounding of the harassment is a valid reason not to get into the detail. Not saying you should believe them too. But to convince me and I suspect most people here you'd have to reasonably demonstrate all the mods are biaised, not just Baulderstone (who I think is a pretty good faith debater in general btw).
Btw, no it's not symetrical, and I don't think it should be. Let's be real, the mods here are much less likely than random posters to make fake accusations, and it's also not just 1 person, but a group that we know disagree on lots of things, are generally fair & rarely take action to sanction anyone. They're also in charge of not letting this place turn into a shitshow, which necessitates some discretion. It just does.
Also while I appreciate that you apologize when pressed, you have a pattern of making screechy "call outs" (accusations) mid argument then having to backtrack. But last time I understood your point, and this time I don't see one besides apologetics. So it feels like it is parasocial/social clique bullshit and that I don't like. Didn't help that impression that you wrote a giant chunk of text of fanfiction about Spamhander apologizing- or that you admitted being friends and therefor biaised.
Anyway, general rethoric advice : if you mount a defense of someone don't stop midargument to adress immaterial things (like some people supposedly distorting what you say), unless that's the whole point of the defense - eg "all the mods are biaised against Spamhammer", since that's what would be required for such an attack to make sense.
And more personal advice/pure opinion, just let Grim and Perilous Spam (or any internet personality) mount their own apology/defense, unless you get paid for it. It doesn't even help them. But it does smear shit everywhere on forums and for no good reason. Very frankly last time I saw you in the moderation thread I felt you were attacked because you said something that caused fanboy butthurt despite having validity - even though you were also screechy. This time, it feels like you're just playing the flying monkey apologetic.
Speaking for myself, I'm not here to avoid "politics", I'm here to avoid being somewhere that's captured by fanboy cliques and other personality cults - which, granted, is most of what passes for politics in this scene. It still seeps in and I don't like it. So that's why I wrote you this text wall. Also because I think you're a good dude and you will listen at least a bit. And you know I didn't write it just because of biais against you or to stan for whomever.