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I received one of those periodic requests for donations from my college alma mater. Since it is rich, and I am not, my immediate reaction was (as usual): "You can have my money when you pry it from my cold, dead hand." Then I noticed the appeal was to make a donation as part of your estate planning, and I realized that my joke was precisely what they were asking for...
 
Just the list of things Windows 10 does that Windows 11 doesn't (in terms of UI) made me decide it was a "No".

Maybe it's time to look at Linux again (15 years or so since the last time), but that means accepting that some tools, games, etc. that I like will probably not be available or will take more work to make go, and I don't have the appetite for tinkering with that stuff that I used to.

"Join usssss..."

Seriously though, you could dual-boot something like Linux Mint and see how you like it. I've been playing Steam games using Proton, and while I admit there was tinkering involved, it was five minutes of reading followed by one click on a drop-down box.

Just tell em it wasn't you, it was your twin brother... Works every time... in movies/tv.

I have, like, six name twins at work. I've gotten away with so many things by blaming one of the others.
 
"Join usssss..."

Seriously though, you could dual-boot something like Linux Mint and see how you like it. I've been playing Steam games using Proton, and while I admit there was tinkering involved, it was five minutes of reading followed by one click on a drop-down box.
Experience back in the day has shown me that if I do that, I end up sitting in Windows permanently, as I boot into it to play a game, and then stay there as I browse, check emails, argue on fora, etc. during load screens or when bored. So dual boots don't work for me.

Also, I use Excel 2007 for stuff, and while it does run on Linux, apparently there are issues. I've tried Libre Office (and I do use it for word processing and other stuff, just not for spreadsheets), and it's just not as nice as Excel. Close, but not quite there.

Besides, I know that I like Linux fine, once it's set up and running. It just doesn't seem worth the effort right now. When M$ end-of-lifes Win10, maybe.
 
I use Linux (Debian) on one box for certain things, and Windows on another for other things. I just tied them into the same monitor and flip between them as needed. They are usually both running, since I let Linux do a lot of the ongoing work on certain things in the background, run Plex off it, etc., while I spend quite a bit of time on Excel on the Windows computer.
 
Today was the local area Special Olympics event for high school and adults, so spent the day there cheering my daughter on. Made a sign that was specific to her on one side of foam board, and flipped to the other side for the rest of her classmates. Middle daughter took vacation time and came to support her younger sister also. So was good to see her too.

Weather was perfect for it today. But I am worn out!
 
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Life sucks. Doc said that I'm pre-diabetic and then gave very little advice on how to keep it from turning into diabetes. It felt like pulling teeth to get some basic info on diet changes from my doc's care team (which was just some website article). Now I'm on a strick diet, and diets suck ass.
 
Life sucks. Doc said that I'm pre-diabetic and then gave very little advice on how to keep it from turning into diabetes. It felt like pulling teeth to get some basic info on diet changes from my doc's care team (which was just some website article). Now I'm on a strick diet, and diets suck ass.
Your on the cliff edge, it's actually not to difficult to slowly back away on it if you can cut down on added sugars and simple carbs and increase physical activity. I stumble up on that edge once in a while and can feel it. When my distance vision improves (your close up never improves as you get old), that's when I know I'm stumbling towards the edge again. Which actually has been the case for the past few months. Damn post surgery blues etc. Anyhow, you can do it.
 
Life sucks. Doc said that I'm pre-diabetic and then gave very little advice on how to keep it from turning into diabetes. It felt like pulling teeth to get some basic info on diet changes from my doc's care team (which was just some website article). Now I'm on a strick diet, and diets suck ass.
That sucks balls. You need to find a new doc. If they aren't actually proactive when you aren't dying of a problem what makes you think they kick it into gear when you are?
 
Your on the cliff edge, it's actually not to difficult to slowly back away on it if you can cut down on added sugars and simple carbs and increase physical activity. I stumble up on that edge once in a while and can feel it. When my distance vision improves (your close up never improves as you get old), that's when I know I'm stumbling towards the edge again. Which actually has been the case for the past few months. Damn post surgery blues etc. Anyhow, you can do it.
Distance vision gets better the worse you are?
 
Distance vision gets better the worse you are?
Yup, my eye doctor warned me about it as well. He was like, "no, no you don't want your further vision to improve, that's bad!" Which has happened for the first time for me. I have to take off my glasses to see clearly past a certain point. Everything just snaps in clearer. Though anything within three free gets blurry because... old. I've been less active due to pain and eating a more junk which includes sugar and simple carbs. Gotta stop that. Otherwise, I will end up with diabetes. It's easier to walk it back if you don't end up with diabetes but still possible.
 
Life sucks. Doc said that I'm pre-diabetic and then gave very little advice on how to keep it from turning into diabetes. It felt like pulling teeth to get some basic info on diet changes from my doc's care team (which was just some website article). Now I'm on a strick diet, and diets suck ass.
Well, I kinda went right over the edge and had to get serious. Anyhow, the easiest change is drinking diet pop. But I had a six to eight can a day habit so that was really low hanging fruit.. Stop eating sugar to get energy or fight exhaustion and headaches, use Tylenol and caffine instead. Stop drinking your calories. Cut your portion sizes. You can cut the calories of anything by eating half as much as long as you don't make up for it with half of something else. Avoid stacking sugars. You can probably get away with a donut or a cookie now and then if you're physically active but don't make it a donut and a cookie and a pop. Space them out and generally have something earlier in the day when you're more likely to burn the energy. Say no to treats people offer you, just tell them you're diabetic. Keep some nuts or just peanuts around to munch on it will help you scale back on the bad stuff. But get on it now, you don't want to go blind and have your toes fall off.
 
Life sucks. Doc said that I'm pre-diabetic and then gave very little advice on how to keep it from turning into diabetes. It felt like pulling teeth to get some basic info on diet changes from my doc's care team (which was just some website article). Now I'm on a strick diet, and diets suck ass.
They didn't even point you to a diabetes educator or anything?

I'm not a medical person, but I do have diabetic relatives. Lower sugar content. Less bread and such. Move to protein content. Vegetables, exercise. Literally everything they tell you to do if you are overweight.

I will say the exercise helps a lot more than it has any right to. Even a brisk walk 20 minutes a day is a massive improvement.
 
They didn't even point you to a diabetes educator or anything?
Yeah, all that my doctor originally said was "switch to a low carb diet and exercise" . First I asked for more details and got the aforementioned copy pasted web article (It literally said to talk to your medical team). Then I asked for a referral to a diabetic specialist. That was all the past 2 weeks and I just got that referral today.
Fortunately I've already been in the process of loosing weight, avoiding sweets, cutting back on snacking and especially reducing portion size. I've been fortunate enough to have never developed a taste for pop and alcohol so I don't have to worry about cutting them out.
The hard part is cutting out snacking, celery has helped somewhat, but dear God do I crave potato chips so bad. Pizza too. I'd kill for a pizza.
That sucks balls. You need to find a new doc. If they aren't actually proactive when you aren't dying of a problem what makes you think they kick it into gear when you are?
Yeah it's super frustrating as until now I haven't had any problems with this doc. He listened to all of my concerns and gave good advice, but now other than my in-person appointment I've only been able to deal with his care team. And it takes months to get an appointment, which seems to be the norm for all medical these days.
 
Life sucks. Doc said that I'm pre-diabetic and then gave very little advice on how to keep it from turning into diabetes. It felt like pulling teeth to get some basic info on diet changes from my doc's care team (which was just some website article). Now I'm on a strick diet, and diets suck ass.

That's a bummer that they didn't give you any help, but it seems to be normal anymore.

I will note what my friend did (she's currently 62, and has reversed Type 2 completely, but this started in her late 50's): She was overweight, 5'6" and over 250 pounds, Type 2 and having to take meds for it. She said, fuck this shit! and started a serious exercise program. First was lots of running. But that didn't fix it...it did help, so cardio is still important, but what turned everything around was weight lifting! She started to seriously weight lift, starting out low, but moving into higher and higher weights. She dropped from 250-260 pounds down to 160, and was able to kick the Type 2 meds completely.

Naturally, she also changed her diet, but she says to this day that it was the weight lifting that turned the tide.

So, get pissed off, and decide you're going to turn it around. Exercise every day if possible, even if its for 10-20 minutes. Once you start the habit of exercising every day, you won't want to stop...that dopamine high is for real :grin:

Seriously though, good luck, and go kick its ass! ::honkhonk:
 
Yeah, all that my doctor originally said was "switch to a low carb diet and exercise" . First I asked for more details and got the aforementioned copy pasted web article (It literally said to talk to your medical team). Then I asked for a referral to a diabetic specialist. That was all the past 2 weeks and I just got that referral today.
FWIW, my wife (nurse) said this is the current state of the medical system and she'd consider a new doctor. Asking for a specialist is a good move. Nutritionist might be useful for you. She had quite a lot of passion behind the discussion because she's really quite upset at how we do things. She has seen it in a number of ways, most recently via public health, and thinks there needs to be changes. She felt that if you had been diagnosed with diabetes you would have had an easier time getting what you need, meaning we'd rather pay for a pound of cure over an ounce of prevention
 
My understanding ( and it's not much - blame training in mental health) is that you can reverse things if you're prediabetic but like others have said it requires some significant lifestyle changes.
So a diet largely free of carbs, lots of protein and lots of exercise.

Tom Waston - former Labour deputy has been quite public about his lifestyle change.

But in all things health related, speak to professionals, not some random on the internet.
 
FWIW, my wife (nurse) said this is the current state of the medical system and she'd consider a new doctor. Asking for a specialist is a good move. Nutritionist might be useful for you. She had quite a lot of passion behind the discussion because she's really quite upset at how we do things. She has seen it in a number of ways, most recently via public health, and thinks there needs to be changes. She felt that if you had been diagnosed with diabetes you would have had an easier time getting what you need, meaning we'd rather pay for a pound of cure over an ounce of prevention
Your wife is a very wise person. Truly we have a very broken system. You really do need to be your own advocate and operate on the offensive. Meaning, seek out the information, seek out the specialist(s) you need and push back with doctors, making them answer your questions and not weasel out of it. Not only that, if they are promoting something whether is be medication, surgery or what have you. Get it in writing and all responses to your questions. I've had so much hit and miss with doctors and surgeons in particular that I'm completely soured on them currently.
 
Yeah, all that my doctor originally said was "switch to a low carb diet and exercise" . First I asked for more details and got the aforementioned copy pasted web article (It literally said to talk to your medical team). Then I asked for a referral to a diabetic specialist. That was all the past 2 weeks and I just got that referral today.
Fortunately I've already been in the process of loosing weight, avoiding sweets, cutting back on snacking and especially reducing portion size. I've been fortunate enough to have never developed a taste for pop and alcohol so I don't have to worry about cutting them out.
The hard part is cutting out snacking, celery has helped somewhat, but dear God do I crave potato chips so bad. Pizza too. I'd kill for a pizza.

Yeah it's super frustrating as until now I haven't had any problems with this doc. He listened to all of my concerns and gave good advice, but now other than my in-person appointment I've only been able to deal with his care team. And it takes months to get an appointment, which seems to be the norm for all medical these days.
Well by sheer luck I managed to get in to see a specialist tomorrow morning. Somewhat unfortunately it's with a nutritionist, not a diabetic specialist because my insurance won't pay for a diabetic specialist until I'm diabetic. Just more shitty focusing on treating the problem instead of incentivizing prevention. Fortunately 99% of my questions are about diet.
 
Well by sheer luck I managed to get in to see a specialist tomorrow morning. Somewhat unfortunately it's with a nutritionist, not a diabetic specialist because my insurance won't pay for a diabetic specialist until I'm diabetic. Just more shitty focusing on treating the problem instead of incentivizing prevention. Fortunately 99% of my questions are about diet.
Weird suggestion and definitely run it by your doctor but ozempic might actually be the right drug to help this. Boosts insulin and suppresses appetite. Diabetes is what it was intended for.
 
Weird suggestion and definitely run it by your doctor but ozempic might actually be the right drug to help this. Boosts insulin and suppresses appetite. Diabetes is what it was intended for.
Good luck getting it in a lot of places, though. The life-style influencer types seem to be buying it all up at any price.

As a Type 2 diabetic, I find that pretty offensive - were it more available I might be a potential candidate for it. As it is I take a variety of drugs for that and to manage blood pressure, etc., and getting my weight down is proving... well it's not happening for a variety of reasons, some being on me, others not so much.
 
Also, probably not going to get that as a pre-diabetic and not actually a diabetic. And certainly, insurance won't cover it for a pre-diabetic, as it's for diabetics :smile:
 
my doc prescribed Ozempic at my last appt. Cost for 3 months with a coupon card was $2600 as I hadn’t hut my deductible yet. I stopped taking after 2 months due to constant nausea as a side effect.

I have my next appt later today. Hopefully she has another option for me instead.
 
Dad and I are going to check out Starved Rock State Park today. Tomorrow he goes back to Seattle.
Cool--hope you have a good time. I stopped there on a cross-country trip maybe 20 years ago, since it was not that far from where I had stayed the night. I didn't have a chance to explore the park fully, but vaguely remember that it was scenic.
 
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Dad and I are going to check out Starved Rock State Park today. Tomorrow he goes back to Seattle.
I highly suggest going to Woodys Steakhouse in Ottawa while down there. You'll be passing through. Ignore the yard gnome display and Christmas lights inside, they have the best steak I've ever had, Woody's marinated ribeye. I never miss a chance to stop there when I go to Matthiessen St Park. Better than Starved Rock, less tourists but might be more difficult for dad as there's less stairs and more actual hiking.

Have fun man!
 
But in all things health related, speak to professionals, not some random on the internet.
Corollary: on the Internet, if it's a sponsored ad, it's all sunshine. Otherwise, nobody ever gets better, there is no help, no hope--just brutal side effects and deterioration.

Ignore them both.
 
Well by sheer luck I managed to get in to see a specialist tomorrow morning. Somewhat unfortunately it's with a nutritionist, not a diabetic specialist because my insurance won't pay for a diabetic specialist until I'm diabetic. Just more shitty focusing on treating the problem instead of incentivizing prevention. Fortunately 99% of my questions are about diet.
Meeting with the nutritionist went very well, got lots of good information and was able to confirm that I'm pretty much doing what needs to be done already, I.E. loosing weight and exercising. I also found out that my a1c level that instigated this whole thing is in fact at the lowest possible threshold considered pre-diabetic, so I'm on the golden path and don't have to make as much life style changes as I had previously thought.
 
my doc prescribed Ozempic at my last appt. Cost for 3 months with a coupon card was $2600 as I hadn’t hut my deductible yet. I stopped taking after 2 months due to constant nausea as a side effect.

I have my next appt later today. Hopefully she has another option for me instead.
Just following up. A1C was down to non diabetic level, so not adding any more drugs and just seeing if I can maintain for 3 months.
 
Just following up. A1C was down to non diabetic level, so not adding any more drugs and just seeing if I can maintain for 3 months.
Good to hear.

Just went to see my GP. My A1c is down to prediabetes levels, so no changes to my diabetes drugs, but adding a new one for cholesterol control, as my body is unimpressed by weaksauce drug regimes like mega-statins in large doses.

OTOH, my weight is down a bit according to the doctor's scales, which is not what I was expecting.
 
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Took my dad to tonight's Cubs game. Cubs won. Fun was had.
I have a vanity plate on my car that is Cubs related that gets a lot of attention…and I live in New England. Vanity plates can be cool and I love showing my support for the Cubs but it’s irritating when somebody is tailgating you with their cellphone on top of their steering wheel.
 
I have a vanity plate on my car that is Cubs related that gets a lot of attention…and I live in New England. Vanity plates can be cool and I love showing my support for the Cubs but it’s irritating when somebody is tailgating you with their cellphone on top of their steering wheel.
Sheesh! I only did it the one time! Beep! Beep!
 
I have a vanity plate on my car that is Cubs related that gets a lot of attention…and I live in New England. Vanity plates can be cool and I love showing my support for the Cubs but it’s irritating when somebody is tailgating you with their cellphone on top of their steering wheel.
Couple of random swerves will fix that.
 
Apparently I am borderline prediabetic (like, 100-120 glucose is considered diabetic, and I have a glucose level of 100). Which means cutting down on carbs and sugars a bit.

I had cut out sodas already, but damn I need to eat less pasta, sandwiches, and potato.

Oh well, at least omelettes are a great breakfast option, and I do love omelettes.
 
Apparently I am borderline prediabetic (like, 100-120 glucose is considered diabetic, and I have a glucose level of 100). Which means cutting down on carbs and sugars a bit.

I had cut out sodas already, but damn I need to eat less pasta, sandwiches, and potato.

Oh well, at least omelettes are a great breakfast option, and I do love omelettes.
Get it down and then focus on more of a mediterranean diet seems to be the best route as far as food goes. Before the surgery and the complication from that I was pretty good. We only ate out a couple times a month. After a year of pain and misery I caved and started eating badly and I stopped exercising. Wasn't long after that, that the weight increased and the diabetic cliff loomed.

So now I need to just say fuck the pain and discomfort and go back to the previous habits. Unfortunately the older you get the more quickly muscle mass breaks down and the harder it is to maintain let alone improve. So, I've got that to look forward to. Gotta exercise along with the dietary changes if you truly want to walk back from the diabetic cliff.
 
*sigh*... laptops are disappearing at work. I have a suspect in mind - I don't think he's stealing them, I think he's using them to do his work and taking them from the stock room rather than the pile next to his desk because that way there's no paperwork.

Objectively it's quite mad to risk your job over five minutes of filling out forms, but it's entirely in character for this guy.
 
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