TheophilusCarter
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2) though it's been identified as linked to "Black Lives Matter", a movement that I don't know a lot about (not living in the States), but I understand is controversial for some reason(s),
You say that now, but wait until Voros releases his Canucksploitation Lesibisnakes hack.(I leave out Canada because nobody cares).
No one here is strident, except you, just now.
T The Butcher
You seem to be under the impression that Dumarest, myself, and others who've argued against fundraising for political groups on the Pub, are acting from some political acrimony. This is not the case, as can be demonstrated by actually reading anything any of us have read on this forum, ever.
Nor have any of us engaged in personal attacks, but you're doing so now.
I ask you to please stop. I like you and you're a great poster. Please don't let misunderstanding undermine the fun to be had between us on this forum.
T The Butcher how's life as a doctor in the worlds hottest spot for coronovirus in a completely overwhelmed healthcare system and a completely unsupporting government? Stressful?
Edit:. This isn't intended as an attack. Mostly I wanted people to consider the stresses on people's lives when considering responses.
Speaking as an Australian, I can assure you that it does not....and nobody knows anything about Australia. Does it even exist? Nobody knows.
I just want to know why points 1,2,3 and 5 are in arabic numerals and point four is in roman.
I don't like the number four
Don't lie. We all know it exists. Except it's really called "Oz" and its capital is the Emerald City ...Speaking as an Australian, I can assure you that it does not.
The number f o u r is the mark of the devil. That’s why it’s branded on the breast of Geese! Tristram is wise!like.. specifically the arabic numeral representation?
like.. specifically the arabic numeral representation?
The feeling of being Swedish used to be the same, but right now we are not wanted anywhere. I find that faintly upsetting.
I do not feel this is a fair assessment. Check my word count on the subject. Then check yours, and other posters’.
While the issue at hand may be a valid topic of debate, it’s been going on for far too long...
...and on vehement enough terms...
...that I feel well within my rights to suspect that there’s a dash more to it than enforcing forum neutrality.
Further compounding my suspicions are the speed and tone with which you and that other poster responded. Hence “Q.E.D.”
I am sorry that you feel “attacked” because that statement was deliberately formulated to be as vague as possible, so that no one had to feel personally attacked. But hey, if the boot fits.
This paragraph is the sole reason I am responding to you
This is pretty much how I feel here. I'm not concerned with the mods so much as I'm concerned about some other poster I've never even interacted with before who gets upset over something I wrote in good faith.
Tristram thinks so but would be suprised that there are more Americans working in the Middle East that claim to be Canadian than there are actual Canadians in the world....
Aww man don't run off - we all like you and you were one of the first here. You and I don't agree politically but I ALWAYS enjoy hearing from you. It would be a loss to me and others if you don't come back. And as for Butcher - hes a nice guy. He may not have said something artfully or maybe he was just having a bad day. Please don't get offended!Word count has absolutely nothing to do with intent.
We've been debating this at pretty much the same length of any other subject, including RPG related discussions. And again, word count and the length of a discussion have nothing whatsoever to do with anything.
Where is this vehemency you talk about? I've been nothing but polite, even apologetic!
And this is what upsets me. I'm not ashamed to admit that this hurt my feelings. This entire post of yours, and the one before it, accuses me of coming from some imagined agenda that I don't possess. You've either not read my earlier posts on this topic, failed to understand them, or simply chose to dismiss them in favor of attributing to me whatever your ideological bugbear is.
So let me lay it out for you, Butcher, since you seem to think I'm coming from partisan position and hate BLM or whatever. I deliberately didn't talk about this because of the no politics rule. But here I've got one of my favorite posters popping off on me like I was selling MAGA hats or something.
I lost ten years of my life to the corruption and incompetence of law enforcement. Ten fucking years. I spent the first five living off the grid. The rest was spent getting my life back together, from being homeless to getting a roof over my head and rejoining society. My life since has been about repairing and building from there. While most here have had an uninterrupted lifeline, I've had to to do a hard reset.
And that's not the worst for me. The worst for me is the most precious thing a cop can have is trust with other officers. It's as rare and valuable as love. I had a crew I worked with that I trusted with my life. They're all gone. Two vanished, the same as me. I don't know where they are or even if they're alive. The rest are dead. My mentor died of a heart attack. The guy I was mentoring died of cancer. The rest shot themselves or died in car accidents. Of my original crew, as far as I know, I'm the only one still alive.
I don't have the ability to articulate how much police incompetence and corruption has taken from me.
That's why I fully support BLM. There's a sickness in law enforcement, and it needs to be treated.
I live in Los Angeles, Butcher. I was on the street with these people last week!
And you have the gall to accuse me of a political agenda! You don't even know me. You haven't even taken the time to try. You just showed up, completely misunderstood where I was coming from, and vomited your ad hominems all over this thread. You didn't even have the courtesy come at me with coherent argument.
What the hell, man!
Jesus fucking Christ. I've always been fast on the draw here. I post from a PC, keep one tab open to I can see my alerts, and do my actual real world work in another workspace.
There is no boot! The only boot here is the one you're trying to force on me! It's like some neurotic, ideological version of Cinderella.
Well gee, Butcher, thanks for taking the time out of your day to double down on your accusations.
And didn't Baulderstone ask we refrain from personal attacks? Good to see that's being enforced. Oh wait, it's me, and I'm voicing an unpopular opinion.
Upthread, I said this, in regard to feeling like walking on eggshells:
Well, here I am. Again.
I'm not walking on eggshells anymore. I'm walking on a frittata of sadness.
I take a break, let things cool down, and return, changing my approach. Less anime and more RPG posts, no direct attacks unless attacked first, that kind of thing. Nothing I do works. It's like trying to make it work out with a verbally abusive boyfriend.
Funny I don't have this problem on Reddit.
It's one thing if some new poster pops off at me for some fabricated offence, but you Butcher. Dude you and I were here from the beginning. I get that I can be off putting sometimes, but I never imagined you'd think I'd act in bad faith here. That hurts me, man.
What it comes down to for me is if I'm not having fun, why am I here? If I'm biting my nails because I'm worried I'm going to have to spend hours dealing with someone who gets offended for reasons that can't even be objectively proven, then why am I here?
I'm here because I really did like this place, for a while. I really had a lot of fun here, for a while.
As far as the issue ofIT'S A FUCKING BUNDLE YOU ASSHOLE!posting, linking, and by extension, endorsing obvious political groups in a forum that was supposed to be non-political, my arguments stand as they are. I'm no longer invested, partly because I know what the outcome here will be, and partly because the bombardment of accusations I've received for my attempts to preserve the no politics rule.
You can do what you want. I'm done. I will not be returning.
Peace, and I wish all of you the best.
Tristram thinks so but would be suprised that there are more Americans working in the MIddle East that claim to be Canadian than there are actual Canadians in the world....
What city are you from Tristram? In the nineqties I practially lived in Toronto and have visited most of the big cities. Still need to go to Novia Scotia though. Heard its beautiful in the Fall.We are a rare subspecies of subthermal demihumans, tis true.
This entire post of yours, and the one before it, accuses me of coming from some imagined agenda that I don't possess.
It accuses you of nothing. You stepped up and quickly fired off three responses. You felt
So let me lay it out for you, Butcher, since you seem to think I'm coming from partisan position and hate BLM or whatever. I deliberately didn't talk about this because of the no politics rule. But here I've got one of my favorite posters popping off on me like I was selling MAGA hats or something.
I lost ten years of my life to the corruption and incompetence of law enforcement. Ten fucking years. I spent the first five living off the grid. The rest was spent getting my life back together, from being homeless to getting a roof over my head and rejoining society. My life since has been about repairing and building from there. While most here have had an uninterrupted lifeline, I've had to to do a hard reset.
And that's not the worst for me. The worst for me is the most precious thing a cop can have is trust with other officers. It's as rare and valuable as love. I had a crew I worked with that I trusted with my life. They're all gone. Two vanished, the same as me. I don't know where they are or even if they're alive. The rest are dead. My mentor died of a heart attack. The guy I was mentoring died of cancer. The rest shot themselves or died in car accidents. Of my original crew, as far as I know, I'm the only one still alive.
I don't have the ability to articulate how much police incompetence and corruption has taken from me.
That's why I fully support BLM. There's a sickness in law enforcement, and it needs to be treated.
I live in Los Angeles, Butcher. I was on the street with these people last week!
And you have the gall to accuse me of a political agenda! You don't even know me. You haven't even taken the time to try. You just showed up, completely misunderstood where I was coming from, and vomited your ad hominems all over this thread. You didn't even have the courtesy come at me with coherent argument.
What the hell, man!
Jesus fucking Christ. I've always been fast on the draw here. I post from a PC, keep one tab open to I can see my alerts, and do my actual real world work in another workspace.
There is no boot! The only boot here is the one you're trying to force on me! It's like some neurotic, ideological version of Cinderella.
Well gee, Butcher, thanks for taking the time out of your day to double down on your accusations.
And didn't Baulderstone ask we refrain from personal attacks? Good to see that's being enforced. Oh wait, it's me, and I'm voicing an unpopular opinion.
Upthread, I said this, in regard to feeling like walking on eggshells:
Well, here I am. Again.
I'm not walking on eggshells anymore. I'm walking on a frittata of sadness.
I take a break, let things cool down, and return, changing my approach. Less anime and more RPG posts, no direct attacks unless attacked first, that kind of thing. Nothing I do works. It's like trying to make it work out with a verbally abusive boyfriend.
Funny I don't have this problem on Reddit.
It's one thing if some new poster pops off at me for some fabricated offence, but you Butcher. Dude you and I were here from the beginning. I get that I can be off putting sometimes, but I never imagined you'd think I'd act in bad faith here. That hurts me, man.
What it comes down to for me is if I'm not having fun, why am I here? If I'm biting my nails because I'm worried I'm going to have to spend hours dealing with someone who gets offended for reasons that can't even be objectively proven, then why am I here?
I'm here because I really did like this place, for a while. I really had a lot of fun here, for a while.
As far as the issue ofIT'S A FUCKING BUNDLE YOU ASSHOLE!posting, linking, and by extension, endorsing obvious political groups in a forum that was supposed to be non-political, my arguments stand as they are. I'm no longer invested, partly because I know what the outcome here will be, and partly because the bombardment of accusations I've received for my attempts to preserve the no politics rule.
You can do what you want. I'm done. I will not be returning.
Peace, and I wish all of you the best.
Whenever I've heard someone use the term storygame or trad game its generally to bash the other camp
What city are you from Tristram? In the nineqties I practially lived in Toronto and have visited most of the big cities. Still need to go to Novia Scotia though. Heard its beautiful in the Fall.
And maybe Bunch is right. Maybe my current circumstances are getting to me more than I care to admit. Which does not make for an excuse, but signals I might not be a great fit for the forum right now.
I went to Vancouver a few years back. Spent three days there and two days in Victoria. Beautiful place and wonderful people!I spent my early childhood in Nova Scotia and then lived in Ontario for years - Kingston, mainly, but had family in Ottawa and Toronto , so spent a good deal of time in both cities. These days I live on the West Coast, in Vancouver. I was on Bowen Island for a while, now I'm in Kits.
Oh, don't you run off too!
C'mon, the world is f-ed up right now, at the very least we can extend some patience and understanding when people are a bit more on edge. And yes, I have noticed a distinct change in your demeanour on the Pub in recent times, but that's not a reason to exile yourself, rather lean on the friends you have when you need to lean. That's why we're here.
I went to Vancouver a few years back. Spent three days there and two days in Victoria. Beautiful place and wonderful people!
Besides, what’s really ailing me is very, very political.
Oh, don't you run off too!
C'mon, the world is f-ed up right now, at the very least we can extend some patience and understanding when people are a bit more on edge. And yes, I have noticed a distinct change in your demeanour on the Pub in recent times, but that's not a reason to exile yourself, rather lean on the friends you have when you need to lean. That's why we're here.
I'd suggest that both of you sleep on it for a day or two before coming to any decision.I don’t know, man. Appreciate the sentiment but would rather not stink up the place.
Besides, what’s really ailing me is very, very political.
noman if you’re still reading, my offer stands: I’ll voluntarily exile if you remain.
Fuck, I was actually happy noman was back.
You are SUCH a nice guy! I take back half the things I have said about you!I must have typed out and deleted five or six posts to respond to this thread.
I'll just say this. If anybody here needs to talk about anything, my door is open. I might not be able to tell you what you want to hear, I might not be able to tell you everything that's on my mind that you might want to know, but I will lend you my ears. If you need somebody to talk to, send me a PM. I found out recently that just talking to somebody, anybody, when you are stressed out is better than keeping it inside. Any sometimes you don't necessarily want to talk to your family about it, for whatever reason. I get it. The door is open if you need it.
“I don't know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve" ...You are SUCH a nice guy! I take back half the things I have said about you!
The irony is that this conversation about the link possibly being political is worse than the link itself. Members here have already got enjoyment out of that bundle but in this thread we have people getting agitated. I agree with what Baulderstone said earlier. Still pondering this though.
I think this is a fair solution.I agree the initial thread title was an issue and in the future all bundles should be under a blanket thread to avoid giving the impression some are specifically being supported by the forum.
People think it's a continent. It's actually a seething mass of spiders visible from space.Speaking as an Australian, I can assure you that it does not.
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